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Family or Fiancé: Returns to TV Tonight on OWN

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Photo: OWN Communications
Photo: OWN Communications

OWN‘s hit reality television shows Family or Fiancé, hosted by relationship expert Tracy McMillan returns to television Saturday, Jan. 11 at 9/8c on the OWN television network. The hit television show follows engaged couples who bring their disapproving families together for three days under one roof.

In this high-stakes social experiment, the couples and extended families participate in activities designed to strengthen their bond, unpack their differences, and show some very complicated relationships in a whole new light. In the end, the families‘ concerns might leave the couples to reconsider their unions, or revelations might cause any concerns to fall away. Tracy McMillan returns as the voice of reason to work with the couples on ways to deal with their relationship problems and family issues head on in order to help resolve the conflicts that could undermine their future together.

Relationship expert and “Family or Fiancé” host Tracy McMillan talks relationships with Atlanta press. (Photo: The Burton Wire)

“In normal everyday life, people suppress their issues,” says the relationship expert. The purpose of the show is to have those issues come up so couples can deal with them,” adds the television writer.

Check out the official trailer below:

McMillan offers, “When you confront issues, you get free.”

Family or Fiancé airs at 9/8c on OWN. 

This post was written by Nsenga K. Burton, Ph.D., founder & editor-in-chief of The Burton Wire. Follow The Burton Wire on Instagram or Twitter @The Burton Wire.

Irving Burgie Remembered for Selling 100M+ Records

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Irving Burgie wrote Day-O and the Barbados National Anthem. (photo: Google Images)

Irving Burgie, Songwriter who helped bring Calypso to America has died. Burgie wrote the calypso song “Day-O” (“The Banana Boat Song”) which became a huge hit for singer/actor Harry Belafonte in 1956. Burgie, who went by the name Lord Burgess, co-wrote the song with William Attaway, based on a traditional Jamaican folk song. “Day-O” spent 31 weeks at number one on the Billboard chart and later was featured in a popular scene in the movie “Beetlejuice.” He wrote many more calypso songs for Belafonte including “Island in the Sun.” Burgie was a member of an all-black unit in the Army during World War II. After the war, he worked the folk music circuit in Greenwich Village and then began writing for Belafonte. His mother was a native of Barbados and Burgie wrote the country’s national anthem. He was elected to the Songwriters Hall of Fame in 2007. Burgie was 95.

Check out a feature on Burgie by Jon Kalish for NPR News.

 

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Miss Universe 2019: Miss South Africa Wins Crown

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Miss Universe 2019 Zozibini Tunzi. Photo: Screen shot
Miss South Africa 2019 and Miss Universe 2019 Zozibini Tunzi. (Photo: Google Images)

Zozibini Tunzi was crowned Miss Universe Sunday making it the first time Miss America, Miss USA, Miss Teen USA and Miss Universe are all black women. In her closing statement, Tunzi stated, “I grew up in a world where a woman who looks like me with my color skin and my kind of hair is not considered beautiful. That stops today. I want children to look at my face and see their own looking back at them.” Che

Congratulations Miss Universe 2019.

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Podcast: The Burton WireTap™ Episode 1 ( November 14, 2019)

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The Burton Wiretap Logo
The Burton Wiretap Logo

Welcome to the inaugural episode of The Burton WireTap™, The Burton Wire’s podcast which discusses topics and issues at the intersection of black culture and society. Hosted by The Burton Wire‘s founder & editor-in-chief Nsenga K. Burton, Ph.D., this first episode explores a number of topics with inaugural guest Dr. Pellom McDaniels III, Curator for the African-American Collection of the Rose Library at Woodruff Library at Emory University. In this episode they discuss the NCAA’s decision to pay athletes, the loss of political lions the honorable Elijah Cummings and John Conyers, the importance of Black Jockeys and what the Rose Library’s collections offer. Sit back and relax and check out where black culture lives. Tune in December 1, 2019 for the next podcast where we’ll be discussing Black Star Power, Holiday traditions and the 2020 election. Let us know what you think about The Burton WireTap™ on Twitter @TheBurtonWire.

‘Lionheart’: Nigerian Film Disqualified from Oscars

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Photo: TIFF

The Twitterverse is in an uproar over the disqualification of Nigerian film ‘Lionheart’ from Oscar consideration because it is in English, which is the official language of Nigeria. Nigeria submitted its first-ever Oscar entry, but the Academy of Motion Picture Arts and Sciences says the film does not qualify for the international category because the film is in English.

NPR reports:


Filmmakers like Ava DuVernay weighed in on social media.

Screenshot/Twitter

Observations were made regarding the irony of a film being punished by the United States for using the English language, which is the result of colonization.

Screenshot/Twitter

Read more about the controversy at Indiewire.

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Cameroon: 22 Dead and Dozens Missing in Landslide

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Douala, Cameroon (Google Images)
Screen shot of the Weather Channel radar.

Reuters Africa is reporting at least 22 people have been killed and dozens more are missing following a landslide caused by heavy rainfall in Douala.

Rescue teams in Cameroon were scouring the rubble of destroyed houses for survivors on Tuesday after a landslide caused by heavy rainfall killed at least 22 people, state television reported.

The police were searching for dozens more people reported as missing in the town of Bafoussam in the western highlands, some 200 km (120 miles) north of Cameroon’s main port city of Douala. Residents are being asked to evacuate to prevent further casualties due to the continued heavy rains.

The United Nations children’s agency UNICEF said last week that heavy rain in South Sudan had also destroyed health centers and roads and made access to food and water more difficult for nearly 1 million people.

This story is developing. Read more at Reuters Africa.

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VIDEO: Nigeria & Ghana Sex for Grades Doc Goes Viral

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BBC Africa's Sex for Grades documentary exposes sexual harassment on college campuses in Nigeria and Ghana.

BBC Africa’s documentary, Sex For Grades: Undercover Inside Nigerian and Ghanaian Universities, exposes the culture of sexual harassment, exploitation and abuse that exists in the university system. More than 2 million people have viewed the viral documentary on YouTube.

Synopsis
Universities in Nigeria and Ghana have been plagued by stories of sexual harassment by lecturers and professors for decades. Allegations include a wide array of abuses, from blackmailing students for sex in exchange for marks and admission to lewd comments and grooming. After gathering dozens of testimonies, BBC Africa Eye sent undercover journalists posing as students inside the University of Lagos (UNILAG) and the University of Ghana to capture footage of the sexual harassment. Reporter Kiki Mordi, who knows first-hand how devastating sexual harassment can be, reveals what happens behind the closed doors of some of West Africa’s most prestigious universities.

Watch the documentary below:

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S. Africa: #AmINext Trending Amid Gender-Based Violence Protests

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Women Protest Gender Based Violence in South Africa. (Ruptly on YouTube)

Gender based violence is rampant in South Africa and has been described as a national crisis by some. Rape survivor Norma Ka Mbele shares her story amid protests against sexual violence happening in South Africa, which has one of the highest femicide rates in the world. The hashtag #AmINext started trending in South Africa as more than 30 women were killed last month, among them Uyinene Mrwetyana, a student from Cape Town who was raped and bludgeoned to death in a post office. Rape is often a tool of violence against women and children in South Africa.

Watch Mbele’s story below:

Many protests have been taking place over the last few couple of months because gender based violence against women and children is epidemic according to many, including the police, who have come under fire for failure to protect women and children from the threat and reality of violence.

Read more at BBC Africa.

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Atatiana Jefferson: So What She Owns a Gun? It’s Her Right

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Photo: Facebook/Atatiana Jefferson

Unless you’ve been living under a rock, you have heard the most recent high-profile case of the killing of Atatiana Jefferson, a 28-year-old woman, who was shot and killed by former Fort Worth police officer Aaron Dean, while playing video games with her nephew in her home. Atatiana was basically minding her business when a neighbor called a non-emergency 911 number to have someone perform a wellness check when he noticed the front door of the home was open. Atatiana was fatally wounded after Dean showed up yelling commands, with a flashlight in hand and pointing a gun in her window in a dark room without so much as identifying himself. Not even minutes after Dean killed Jefferson, the police department trotted out information that Jefferson owned a gun which was found in the house.

Atatiana Jefferson having a gun in her own damned home is immaterial to the fact that the neighbor called a non-emergency number for a welfare check; the police officer did not announce himself upon arrival; the police officer shot through a side window in the dark killing her; the police officer shot this woman dead in front of her nephew – a child; The police officer’s reckless behavior might have resulted in the death of her nephew.

The police officer failed to follow basic protocol and procedure, period.

Dallas Morning News is now reporting that Tatiana was shot after pointing her gun at the window after she retrieved her gun from her purse when hearing the noise and seeing the flashlight outside, which is what her nephew communicated to investigators.

My response to the fact she had a gun is so what? She has the right to own a gun and to protect herself and her family when under the impression that her home is being broken into by a stranger.

Interim Police Chief Ed Kraus said at a news conference Tuesday it “makes sense that she would have a gun if she felt that she was being threatened or there was someone in the backyard.”

To show you how heinous this crime was, Kraus and Fort Worth’s mayor Betsy Price apologized to Jefferson’s family at a news conference Monday. Dean resigned his position – to avoid being fired — and was arrested for Jefferson’s murder.

While the police department and media outlets initially kept the identity of Dean protected, they trotted out the information Jefferson had a gun to provide a reason for Dean’s unreasonable behavior. I suspect the police and city officials fell on the sword after realizing there is no justifiable reason for Atatiana Jefferson to be dead — a college graduate with aspirations of being a doctor.

An empathetic woman who like many stepped up to help care for aging relatives and like many “Aunties,” loved spending time with her nephew and allowing him to stay up all night with her to have fun. As a super “Auntie,” that is what “Aunties” are for — to have fun with your nieces and nephews and break the rules with them every once in a while, like staying up way past bedtime to play video games. Our little ones also help us to reclaim some of those carefree childhood days when having fun was at the top of the to-do list. Atatiana, who obviously had a lot on her plate with caring for others, may have simply forgotten to close the door completely behind her when entering the home because that never happens (sarcasm). Now her nephew’s last memory of his “Auntie” is watching her lifeless body fall to the ground. Who is going to help take care of him or her ailing relatives now?

Why the neighbor called the police instead of going over and pulling the door shut we’ll never know? Maybe he didn’t know Jefferson’s family (the Craigs) well or didn’t want to cause concern by coming onto someone’s property at that time of morning?  Even among the high-profile cases of police violence against unarmed black people in general and in their home specifically (Botha Jean), the neighbor erred on the right side of the law and called the non-emergency police number and explained the situation which was not critical and hoped for the best. Instead, Atatiana Jefferson received the worst from Officer Dean, the Fort Worth police department and mainstream media outlets. 

The police had the audacity to try and malign this young woman’s impeccable character by announcing she owns a gun like 393 million other Americans. Roughly 46 percent of the accounted for United States population owns guns. In fact, 36 percent of accounted for Texans own guns, so what does the fact that the victim (the whole human being whose life was snuffed out) have to do with the price of tea in China? Not a damned thing.

Once again an unarmed black woman is dead for no reason other than a trigger happy, poorly trained officer looking for paid time-off. Please stop calling him a Rookie. He had been on the police force for a year and a half and with the recent Botha Jean case in Ft. Worth should have known better than to do what he did. The silence of the NRA and police unions on the senseless killing of Black people being Black in their homes is deafening.

If you cannot eat a bowl of ice cream in your home like Jean or play video games with your nephew and care for your elderly family in your home like Jefferson without being shot and killed by a police officer then what are Black people to do?

Dean has been arrested and charged with murder and quickly released on $200,000 bond, which isn’t surprising. As a Black woman, I am horrified that this man who so callously took this young Black woman’s life is allowed to walk among us, particularly when Atatiana Jefferson is not here to defend or speak for herself. Jefferson had the right to protect herself and her family from what she perceived to be a dangerous person breaking into her home, period. For that deduction, she is no longer here while Dean figures out his next steps and his legal team figures out how to justify the unjustifiable.

Like Amber Guyger, the police officer convicted of the murder of Botha Jean, if Dean truly felt he did something wrong, then he would plead guilty and pursue a deal satisfactory to the family and prosecutor. That won’t happen because like the others before him including former police officer Robert Olsen who was found not guilty in the murder of Anthony Hill, an unarmed, naked Black Veteran who was in the midst of a mental breakdown, Dean doesn’t feel that he did anything wrong because what’s another dead, unarmed Black person in America?

In all likelihood he’ll be found not guilty or if found guilty, receive a short sentence like Guyger or former BART police officer Johannes Mehserle, who fatally wounded Oscar Grant III who was handcuffed, lying on his stomach on a BART platform. Meherle was sentenced to two years behind bars for involuntary manslaughter and was released after serving several months with time served.

My friend Donna White says, “Melanin is not a weapon.” Yet and still too many police officers are able to use Black skin as an excuse to escalate situations that often result in the unlawful arrest or murder of an unarmed Black person or Black person minding their business in their house or on their property.

The only threat to anyone the night of Atatiana’s murder was police officer Aaron Dean, a real threat, not a perceived one. Ultimately Atatiana Jefferson paid for coming in contact with this real threat with the loss of her life and that is truly unacceptable. #SayHerName

This post was written by Nsenga K. Burton, Ph.D., founder and editor-in-chief of the award-winning news blog The Burton Wire. Follow her on Twitter @Ntellectual or @TheBurtonWire.

In Menopause? WisePause Lifestyle Tour Has Your Back

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Denise Pines, president of the California Medical Board speaks to a panel at the Los Angeles WisePause Lifestyle tour stop. (Photo: WisePause)
Denise Pines, president of the California Medical Board speaks to a panel at the Los Angeles WisePause Lifestyle tour stop. (Photo: WisePause)

Many women struggle with menopause, a natural and normal condition that all women experience as they age. The term “menopause” can describe any of the changes a woman goes through either just before or after she stops menstruating, marking the end of her reproductive period.

WisePause is a pro-age online and offline wellness platform formed to educate and connect women with trusted information, supportive community, and actionable reliable resources focused on the health and wellness of women leading up to menopause at midlife. Whether online or at an event, women are introduced to culturally diverse practitioners and experts with the latest discoveries, best treatments and scientifically proven remedies.

WisePause makes the second stop of its lifestyle tour at the Cobb Energy Performing Arts Center Theatre Ballroom Saturday, October 12 between 8 a.m. and 6 p.m. More than 20 experts are scheduled to appear to offer women innovative information, resources and remedies for perimenopause and menopause. The event includes workshops, small-group discussions and exhibitors.

Menopause is defined as when a woman has not had a menstrual period for at least 12 months. Perimenopause represents the years leading up to menopause, when many women experience symptoms resulting from hormonal imbalances. The average age range for women to enter these phases are between 40 and 55. More than 6,000 women in the U.S. reach menopause daily—and nearly 80% of them will experience hot flashes or night sweats. Less than seven percent will receive treatment for these and other symptoms such as belly fat, low libido, mood swings and insomnia.* Symptoms are often sudden and surprising. WisePause is a full-day summit designed to demystify and ease the perimenopause and menopause experiences.

“Our grandmothers and mothers never talked about menopause,” says Denise Pines, president of the California Medical Board. “This has resulted in half-truths, all-out myths, unnecessary anxiety and generations of women who have been unprepared for this inevitable yet manageable transition. We’re removing the stigma, so women don’t have to suffer in silence.”

The WisePause Lifestyle Tour is an empowered community experience that connects women to the best midlife health information, trusted healthcare professionals, innovative hormonal healing therapies, products and services, and to other women on similar journeys. In workshops and small-group “Table Talks”, experts in the fields of medicine, alternative medicine and healing arts will discuss topics including hormonal fluctuations, incontinence, nutrition and age-defying skin and beauty treatments.

Exhibitors at the Wellness Experiential Tent will be on hand to provide information and samples of massage, cryotherapies, nutritional supplements, organic foods, yoga and non-invasive skin and beauty treatments.

“Thankfully, today’s working world has embraced the needs associated with pregnancy and motherhood,” said Pines. “However, very few employers recognize or understand that women going through perimenopause or menopause have equally important needs that may require accommodations. Hopefully, starting this transparent conversation will open the door to creating a platform for women to garner much-needed support.” Scheduled participants include:

  • Evie Delaney (Skin Specialist)
  • Dr. Natasha Dawkins, Physical Therapist specializing in pelvic health
  • Lauren Chiren, Menopause in the workplace expert
  • Beth Houser Coughlin, M.S.Ed, Owner/Director of The Living Foods Institute at Tula Health
  • Pamela Molinari – Personal fitness trainer
  • Rebecca Turk – Stress relief through Soundbaths
  • Tammy von Nordheim, MSW, CAMS, CTAS – Mental Health Therapist, Founder of Girl in the Glass Women’s Empowerment

Sponsored by AARP and Tea Botanics,The WisePause tour has hosted or will host events in Los Angeles (September 2019), Chicago and Washington, D.C. in 2020. For more information and to register for the WisePause Lifestyle Tour, please visit https://wisepausetour.com.

Advance tickets for the October 12, 2019 Atlanta tour are $49. To register, please visit https://wisepausetour.com

This post was curated by Nsenga K. Burton, Ph.D. Follow her on Twitter @Ntellectual.

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